If you're not doing something because it's potentially embarrassing... Why is it embarrassing? Because other people will judge you? And then what happens after they inevitably judge you because everyone judges everyone for everything? Oh... nothing? Go ahead and do that thing.
(This call to action brought to you by a person who took three years to adopt a cat because I feared bring branded a crazy cat lady. I'm learning... slowly. Like, very slowly.) Love and pancake printers, Kelly